Martin Stellar - Coach & Consultant for ethical sales and business growth

Martin Stellar - Coach & Consultant for ethical sales and business growth

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What Do You Do, When a Buyer Ghosts You?

It’s one of the most annoying parts of being in business:

You engage with a prospect, you have a great conversation, they really like what you do, and then:

“Cool, let me think about it. I’ll get back to you.”

And then they don’t.

You send a followup email, and get no reply.

But why?

They need your work. They said they wanted it. You’re right for each other!

Several things to consider:

For one thing: Everybody always has a reason for what they do, or don’t do.

In the other person’s world, their not following through on what looked like a perfectly ready sale, make perfect sense.

So with rule #6 in mind (don’t take yourself so seriously), make sure you don’t fall in the trap of making it about yourself, or getting annoyed, or blaming them for their foolishness or whatever.

There’s a million things that can happen in life, that prevent a person from proceeding to buy

So keep your cool, keep an open mind, and make it about them.

Next, ask yourself:

Were you actually talking to the right buyer?

Did it only look like a good fit, or was it actually a good fit?

Because we all have confirmation bias, and we all want to believe that when they say yes, it actually means yes.

But did it?

Or were they just not comfortable enough to say no?

Truth is, the majority of sales conversations should never take place to begin with.

You need to select your potential clients with extreme prejudice.

That’s one way to reduce the number of people ghosting you: be more specific in who you do, and don’t, engage with.

Finally, what can you actually do, when it happens?

First, here’s what not to do:

Don’t write to say ‘Just following up’ or ‘Checking in’.

Instead, here’s two things you can do that actually might work.

The first one, I learned from Dean Jackson, of the ILoveMarketing podcast:

Send an email that says:

“Are you still looking to [obtain outcome]?”

For example, I might write:

“Are you still looking to increase your conversion rates?”

That’s it. Sign your name, hit send.

Or, you could use a method I learned from Chris Voss, of Never Split the Difference fame:

“Having you given up on increasing your conversion rates?”

Both of these are designed not to get the contract, but to restart the conversation.

Because that’s the biggest mistake we make, when we try to bring a ghost-buyer back to life:

We try to close the deal, get the contract, sign the client.

But precisely because something happened in their world that caused them to go radio-silent, your pushing through on that is going to turn them further away.

Instead, what you want to do, is ask a question that leads to a dialogue.

And very often, very soon, you’ll learn that there was something missing, or not right, or not ready, in their world.

In that conversation, you can address that matter, which means they’ll feel taken care of, and that will enable them to re-think and enroll themselves.

That’s how you deal with a buyer-turned-ghost.

How to avoid this kind of situation altogether, is what you learn in the Sales for Nice People 1 on 1 training programme.

Cheers,

Martin

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