Martin Stellar - Coach & Consultant for ethical sales and business growth

Martin Stellar - Coach & Consultant for ethical sales and business growth

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Don’t Be Interesting to Your Buyers – Be Useful Instead!

While asking questions and listening are at the heart of ethical selling, there will come a moment – several moments, more likely – where the buyer wants you to say something.

Answer a question, explain something, repeat something…

Those are crucial moments, because the way you handle them determines whether or not your sales conversation will go smoothly, or instead ends up a struggle.

Most people, when it’s their time to talk, will go for ‘interesting’, which leads to statements like:

“We’re the world’s largest XYZ”, or “I work with some of the most influential authors” or, “We’re an award-winning agency”, or “I was talking to Richard Branson about that last week”, or whatever message is thought to add weight.

The problem is not that these statements don’t make you look interesting.

The problem is that they do.

Here’s the harsh truth:

A buyer doesn’t give a damn about how interesting you might be.

A buyer wants to know how interested you are in them.

And that doesn’t mean ‘interested in the money they might pay you’

They want to know how interested you are in understanding, and solving, their problem.

And for all you regular, normal, non-world’s-largest, not-connected-to-celebs business owners out there: the good news is that even if you’re as boring as a wet sheet of paper, you can still sell your stuff, and at good prices too.

How?

By being interested, and by being helpful.

If your thing doesn’t help, people have no reason to buy it – and you can already start being helpful before people even buy from you.

And, if you want a buyer to understand how much you could help, and how useful you could be, you show them.

Because the most useful person is someone who shows an interest in whatever problem or challenge we’re facing.

So when it’s your turn to talk, you can safely skip over all the things that make you look interesting.

Instead, say things that are useful: share insights, ask clarifying questions, suggest ideas or changes, and above all, and before anything else:

Make sure the buyer knows that you really get their situation.

Because it’s super useful to talk to someone who gets us – there’s no way we won’t get something useful out of the conversation.

And even if they don’t buy then, they’ll be happy they spoke with you, and you’ll be welcome when you reach out again.

There: an easier conversation, with better positioning.

And just because you were trying to be helpful and not try to look interesting: an open door once you follow up.

Ain’t that useful.

You can learn how to have conversations like this, where buyers love the way you show up and learn them, here.

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Martin helped our co-working space get to full occupancy and $25.000 monthly revenue in less than a year.

~ Antonio Herrezuelo,
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