I’m Not Saying You Can Predict the Future, but: You Can Predict the Future

More specifically: you, the daily-life conscious individual you are, obviously can not predict the future, but: Your lizard brain kinda can. It’s the oldest part of the brain, way way older than the frontal cortex that enables you to think, and as such it’s got millions of years of evolutionary experience in perceiving things, extrapolating […]

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The One Choice That Will Make or Break Your Happiness, Wellbeing, and/or Business

There’s three kinds of people, and the one you choose to be determines your happiness, wellbeing, and most of all, your results. The victim blames themselves for everything, and lives in misery. The one who blames others is a victim turned bully, and lives in anger and disapproval. I can’t imagine why anyone would want […]

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Weapons of Mess Destruction

Your attic fills till the floor sags. Your todo list grows until it looks like it will implode under its own weight. Your projects, plans, fomo-triggered experiments, ‘great ideas’ and must-watch webinars pile up until you feel overwhelmed, stressed and confused. The number of different tactics you’re using to try and grow your business spread […]

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Leaning Into Discomfort

Part of us knows what must happen in order for change or success or well-being to show up. On some level, we’re super-clear on what’s required of us. And when we’re not? Then the solution is extraordinarily simple: Do the thing you most resist. It’s there, where you’ve “reasons” for not doing them, that you’ll […]

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Yes. No. Paradox. What???

This one might be a little taxing on the brain, but if you get today’s message, it’ll do you a lot of good. Here we go: Yes = No. Now most likely, reading that, your mind went something like ‘Uh, no dude. Of course not’. Which is precisely my point: Whatever we see or think […]

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How’s Your Justification Hamster?

Ever notice how the mind tries to convince itself of things? Reasons and argues, in order to prove something as true or not true? It’s like a justification hamster running round in our minds, driving a thought-factory which outputs nothing but reasons why what we’re thinking or saying is true. Circular reasoning, stuck in a […]

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Nobody is Crushing It?

That is correct. No matter what picture of success and wealth and awesomeness someone paints for us, it’s never the whole picture. Nobody is crushing it. You might think it’s all roses and money in that person’s life, but I guarantee there’s also consequences that ain’t all that fun. But we only get shown the […]

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Guaranteed to Cause Radical Improvement in Any Relationship Real Quick

If there’s one thing guaranteed to ruin relationships, it’s blaming other people. This one doesn’t put the cap on the toothpaste, that one doesn’t eat their veggies, the bus driver acted like a jerk, your boss is an idiot, your father is selfish, your employees underperform, your competitor cheats, banks are swindlers and politicians are […]

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This Week Has Entirely Not Gone as Planned – and I’m Thrilled About How!

Sometimes (most of the time?) things don’t work out exactly as you had planned. This week was a fine example of it. Instead of launching full on into the business building plans I’d made, I ended up spending nearly the entire week helping a friend with some repairs in his house. Which kept going wrong […]

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Tuning the Human Machine

Spoke to a friend about my CRD training today, and he remarked: “The value you bring is [amongst a few other things he mentioned]… tuning the human machine”. Which is effectively what a coach does – I just never looked at it that way. But it’s true. You’ve got this utterly amazing apparatus called you […]

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