Unavoidable Entropy? Here’s the Antidote to Chaos in Life

In the world of science, there’s a notion that everything ultimately reverts to entropy.

Meaning: everything that’s ordered will at some point turn into increasing disorder, until there’s only chaos left. I’m not a scientist, but if I understand correctly, the idea is that ultimately the universe itself will be nothing more than a chaotic uniform distribution of molecules. Correct me if I’m wrong (but only if you’re an actual scientist ;)

Anyway, whether you’re into science or not: you too know that things in life always tend towards chaos.

Your todo list grows to the point of caving in on itself.

Your attic fills until the roof lifts and the floor sags.

Relationships dilute until you’re rarely in touch any longer (hello, old friends whom I know are reading this).

Plans well laid-out get disrupted the moment you start to implement them (as in: no strategy survives first contact with reality).

And your carefully planned schedule for the day? That’s the one that gets blown to smithereens the moment you check your inbox and see something urgent&important has shown up.

Any of this sound familiar?

Entropy, a state of chaos in life, seems unavoidable.

Like George Braessens sang: “Le vent qui vient à travers la montagne me rendra fou.” (The wind blowing down the mountain will drive me crazy).

Put differently: Any influence borne long enough, will have an effect.

Water is soft, but a couple of billions of drops will eventually cut through granite rock.

So are we then relegated to seeing our lives gradually disintegrate into chaos, just like a planet has no choice but to eventually dissolve and a sun can’t do anything but explode at some point?

Nope, not at all. Humans are different.

You and I, we have agency. We can control things, move things around.

Groups of molecules from here to there (hello, car).

Ideas into the minds of other people (see what I’m doing here?)

And most importantly: we can move our own understanding, thought, and insight.

And that right there, the ability to influence the way our minds work, is the antidote to entropy in your life.

Having insight into – and some control over – how we handle our minds, is the secret to keeping things in order, and avoiding chaos and confusion.

In that sense, you’re an agent of order.

Question is, do you want to take control?

Or would you rather do what most people do, which is to turn a blind eye to the actual agency, power and control you *could* have…?



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Now that you’ve seen how the 9 pillars of Calibrate Reality Dojo go together, I need to point out something: It’s all academic and fairly useless – UNLESS you put it to use. Any theory, or framework, or system… whatever it is that you learn, it won’t do you much good unless you put it […]

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Are You Using Your Genius? (CRD Pillar 9)

Before we dive in: this isn’t about *being* a genius – I wouldn’t want you to tune out because of insecurities or healthy humility. What it’s about is a *zone of genius*, also known as your unique ability. That thing you do in such a way, that there’s nobody in the world who could copy […]

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CRD Pillar 8: Yes is Expensive

Any time you say yes to something, you’re saying no to everything else that’s not that thing. Even if you believe in multitasking (which doesn’t exist – there’s only task-switching) And saying yes is the source of many problems: depletion, lack of clarity, overwhelm, disappointing results, to name but a few. Saying yes carelessly is […]

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CRD Pillar 7: Steal Back Your Attention

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CRD Pillar 5: Habits & Systems

On the surface, life as a human seems haphazard, erratic, and often chaotic. In reality though, life is a superbly organised, utterly reliable mix of habits and systems. The fact that it seems chaotic, that’s only because the entire system of living as a human is so enormous that we can only observe a tiny […]

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[CRD Pillar 6] A Nightclub, a Cathedral and a Trainstation Walk Into a Bar…

What do those three have in common? If you say ‘nought’, you’re missing an important point. Consider: You walk into a cathedral, and instantly you’re beset by a feeling of almost palpable calm. Walk into a trainstation, and you can’t avoid feeling the bustle and the hectic stress. Walk into a nightclub, and you instantly […]

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What Matters?

It’s easy to think that money matters, or productivity, or focus or relationships or marketing or sales. And sure, they’re not irrelevant. But they’re all outcomes. They’re the result of preconditions. Productivity becomes easier when you optimise your surroundings and organise your projects and todo lists. Money comes to you more easily if you get […]

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People, Watcha Doing? (CRD Minicourse, Pillar 4)

Yeah people, what are you, in fact, doing? According to the George Clinton of Parliament/Funkadelic, the answer is: “Standing on the verge of getting it on”, except that’s not the case for most of us (whatever your definition of ‘getting it on may be’). Most people merely toil through life, never really getting ahead very […]

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CRD Minicourse, Pillar 3: Done Any Critical Thinking Lately?

Oh I know, ‘mind’ is only part of the equation – what about feelings? Are those not the true measure of what matters, isn’t it emotions that reveal truth? Sure, yes. Emotions matter. Especially if you consider evolutionary biology: the areas in the brain related to emotions and intuition are much bigger, and much much […]

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